The Story Behind WhyWithCai
At the end of 2021, I went through an extremely hard breakup. I was devastated and didn’t know how I would ever be okay again. I started questioning what I wanted from a significant other, what I deserved, and where my life was headed. I knew that I couldn’t possibly be the only one in this much pain, so I decided to start talking about it online.
On February 14th, 2022 (yes, on Valentine’s Day, quite ironic 😅), I posted my first WhyWithCai video on TikTok without any expectations. I just wanted to share my questions and thoughts on life, relationships, and heartbreak.
It wasn’t long before strangers online began to relate to my content. They felt seen and heard, but most importantly, they felt a little bit less alone.
Today, my mission with WhyWithCai is to help you feel less alone in the world as you navigate relationship challenges and overcome heartbreak. I know what it’s like to feel betrayed. I know what it’s like to feel one-sided love. I know what it’s like to feel like you’re not enough.
I’m just a guy who’s felt what you’re feeling, and I want to help you realize that one day, you’ll be okay :)
Get to know me better
What are your hobbies?
In my spare time you can find me rock climbing, dancing and singing my favourite tunes, watching a Netflix show, or hanging out with my friends and chatting about life!
What is your favourite cuisine?
It's a solid tie between Mexican and Indian food!
In an alternate life, what career would you be pursuing?
Either a professional soccer player, or a professional musician.