Helping you feel less alone in the world.

Through poetry, my book, interactive installations, public speaking, and live events.

A cozy, dimly lit space with neon lights and a whiteboard asking 'What would you tell your ex?' covered with sticky notes, a neon pink and purple heart on the wall, a small table with a sign saying 'Write to your ex,' and various seating and decorative elements.
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Letters to Your Ex - The Book

A person wearing a black shirt and light blue jeans is holding a white notepad or booklet titled 'LETTERS TO YOUR EX' in their right hand, with the person's back facing the camera.
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Letters To Your Ex
Letters To Your Ex
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A collection of 139 letters to exes from 41 different countries, curated from 20,307 submissions during a one-month open call. From crushes, situationships, exclusive relationships, and everything in between, Letters to Your Ex is full of love, pain, grief, and acceptance.

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Nuit Blanche Toronto - 2025

Transforming Waterworks Food Hall in Toronto into a space filled with hundreds of letters floating from the ceiling, a sharing wall, a letter-writing station, a letter-shredding station, and a photo wall.

A group of people sit around the bar in a dimly lit restaurant or cafe, listening to a person speak or perform. The setting has a modern, cozy ambiance with warm lighting and decorative wall accents.

Events & Performances

Poetry workshops, flower workshops, sharing circles, storytelling events, on-stage performances, and others community events.

A man standing outdoors under a large canopy, smiling at the camera, near a display booth with signs and notes about writing letters to an ex, including a large sign with red text asking, 'What would you tell your ex?' and various handwritten notes attached to a whiteboard.

Markets & Installations

Showcasing my book and interactive installation around Toronto at various markets.

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