Helping you feel less alone in the world.

Through poetry, my book, interactive installations, public speaking, and live events.

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Letters to Your Ex - The Book

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Letters To Your Ex
Letters To Your Ex
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A collection of 139 letters to exes from 41 different countries, curated from 20,307 submissions during a one-month open call. From crushes, situationships, exclusive relationships, and everything in between, Letters to Your Ex is full of love, pain, grief, and acceptance.

Letters to Your Ex -
Stories Out Loud

A live storytelling event in Toronto, hosted by @whywithcai, featuring 4-5 storytellers sharing their stories of past relationships before reading letters written to their exes.

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Explore more of my work

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Nuit Blanche Toronto - 2025

Transforming Waterworks Food Hall in Toronto into a space filled with hundreds of letters floating from the ceiling, a sharing wall, a letter-writing station, a letter-shredding station, and a photo wall.

A group of people sit around the bar in a dimly lit restaurant or cafe, listening to a person speak or perform. The setting has a modern, cozy ambiance with warm lighting and decorative wall accents.

Events & Performances

Poetry workshops, flower workshops, sharing circles, storytelling events, on-stage performances, and others community events.

Word On The Street - 2026

Showcasing my book & installation at Canada’s largest annual free outdoor book and magazine festival, with over 180,000 attendees.

Markets & Installations

Showcasing my book and interactive installation around Toronto at various markets.

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